Welcome to Mercer Wexley – Life / Style / Substance. If you’ve landed here, you’re probably not looking for another generic lifestyle blog. Good. Because that’s not what this is. I’m Mercer Wexley, and this is my mission: to help men between 30 and 65—and the women who care about them—build lives that are intentional, stylish, and deeply fulfilling. Not through quick fixes or empty promises, but through real talk, hard-earned wisdom, and a commitment to showing up as your best self. Let’s break it down.
Why This Blog Exists
Life after 30 can feel like a crossroads. Maybe you’re crushing it in your career but feel like something’s missing. Maybe you’re staring down 50, wondering how to stay sharp, relevant, and true to who you are. Or maybe you’re 65, retired, and ready to redefine what “living” means. Wherever you’re at, I’ve been there—or close enough to get it. This blog is for guys who want more: more style, more purpose, more connection. And for women who want a man’s perspective on relationships, gifts, or just what makes us tick.
I started this in 2019 after walking away from a 20-year career in automotive marketing. I’d spent decades building brands, selling dreams, and climbing ladders, but I wanted to build something real—something that mattered. Today, this blog is a community for men who refuse to settle and women who want to understand us better. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being present.
The Pillars of Our Mission
This blog is built on six core categories for men, plus a special section for women. Here’s what we’re about:
Style & Grooming
Looking good isn’t about vanity—it’s about respect. Respect for yourself, your craft, and the people you meet. From choosing the right blazer to mastering a skincare routine that doesn’t take an hour, we cover the tools to present your best self. Because when you look sharp, you feel sharp.
Lifestyle & Passions
Life’s too short for boring hobbies. Whether it’s perfecting a BBQ recipe, collecting vintage watches, or discovering the perfect whisky, this is about chasing what lights you up. We’ll explore passions that make you feel alive, from the garage to the great outdoors.
Personal Growth
Growth doesn’t stop at 30—or 60. It’s about sharpening your mind, building resilience, and staying curious. From mindfulness hacks to tackling self-doubt, we’re here to help you evolve into the man you want to be.
Work & Wealth
Success isn’t just a paycheck; it’s freedom. We dive into career pivots, side hustles, and smart money moves—without the jargon. Whether you’re climbing the corporate ladder or building your own empire, we’ve got strategies to make it work.
Home & Living
Your space should reflect who you are. From crafting a minimalist bachelor pad to turning your backyard into a BBQ haven, we share tips to make your home a place of pride and comfort.
Relationships & Family
Being a great partner, father, or friend takes work. We talk about showing up, listening, and navigating the messy, beautiful world of human connection. From date nights to parenting teens, we’ve got you covered.
Mercer’s Advice to Women
Ladies, this one’s for you. Want to know what men really think? Need a gift idea that’ll actually impress him? Or curious about how to bridge the gap in relationships? I offer a straight-up, no-BS male perspective—think of me as your friend who tells it like it is.
How We Make It Happen
This blog isn’t just me pontificating from a keyboard. It’s a living, breathing community built on a few key principles:
- Authenticity Over Hype: No get-rich-quick schemes or “hack your way to happiness” nonsense. I share what I’ve lived, learned, and tested—warts and all.
- Practicality Meets Inspiration: Every post is designed to give you something you can use today, whether it’s a grooming tip, a career strategy, or a way to connect with your kids. But we also aim to light a fire under you to dream bigger.
- Community-Driven: This isn’t a monologue. Your comments, emails, and stories shape what we talk about. This is our space.
- A Two-Way Street: Men, you’re not alone here. Women, you’re not an afterthought. The “Mercer’s Advice to Women” section is my way of making sure everyone’s at the table.
We monetize through affiliations and ads, but I’m picky about who we partner with. Every product or brand you see here is something I’d use myself—think premium watches, quality grooming products, or tools that make life better. And we’re growing through Pinterest pins and SEO, so you’ll see our posts popping up where you already hang out.
Who This Is For
This blog is for the guy who’s ready to level up—whether you’re 30 and building your empire, 45 and redefining success, or 65 and chasing new adventures. It’s for the man who wants to dress better, live smarter, and love deeper. And it’s for the women who want a peek behind the curtain—what men think, what we value, and how to meet us halfway.
I’m not here to tell you there’s one way to be a man. Masculinity isn’t a monolith; it’s a spectrum. Whether you’re a corporate warrior, a creative maverick, or a guy who just wants to grill better ribs, there’s something here for you. And if you’re a woman looking for insight or inspiration, I’ve got your back too.
My Promise to You
Here’s what you can expect from Mercer Wexley – Life / Style / Substance:
- Real Talk: I’ve been through the corporate grind, divorce, fatherhood, and reinvention. I’ll share the wins and the scars, so you can avoid some of my mistakes.
- Actionable Advice: No fluff. Every post gives you something to try, whether it’s a new tie knot, a budgeting trick, or a way to reconnect with your partner.
- A Bit of Swagger: Life’s too short to take too seriously. Expect a dose of irony, a nod to the absurd, and a style that feels like a conversation with a friend.
- A Space for Growth: This isn’t about chasing trends. It’s about building a life that’s yours—rooted in values, polished with style, and fueled by substance.
Let’s Get to Work
This mission isn’t mine alone—it’s ours. Dive into the posts, leave a comment, share your story. Explore the categories, from Style & Grooming to Relationships & Family. Pin what inspires you on Pinterest, and let’s keep this conversation growing. Whether you’re here to sharpen your edge or understand the men in your life, I’m glad you’re here.
Here’s to a life well-lived—stylish, substantial, and unapologetically you.
—Mercer